Lesson 9 for COVID 19: The Crowds Will Return, but We’ll Gather Carefully

Lesson 9: The Crowds Will Return, but We’ll Gather Carefully
“Masks and sanitizers will be part of the norm for years, the way airport and transportation security measures are still in place from 9/11.”
—Christopher McKnight Nichols, associate professor of history at Oregon State University and founder of the Citizenship and Crisis Initiative
The COVID-19 pandemic won’t end with bells tolling or a ticker-tape parade. Instead, we’ll slowly, cautiously ease back to familiar activities. For all our fears of the coronavirus, many of us can’t wait to resume a public life: When 1,000 people 65 and older were asked which pursuits they were most eager to start anew post-pandemic, 78 percent said going out to dinner, 76 percent picked getting together with family and friends, 71 percent chose travel, and 30 percent cited going to the movies.
Seeing art, attending concerts, cheering in a stadium — even going to class reunions we might have once dreaded — we’ll do them again. But how will we return to feeling comfortable in groups of tens, hundreds and thousands? And will these gatherings be different? How we come together:
Don’t expect the same old, same old. Just as the rationing, isolation and economic crisis caused by World War I and the Spanish flu epidemic “led to a kind of awakening of how we assembled,” Nichols says, expect COVID to shake up the nature and personality of our public spaces. Back in the 1920s, it was the rise of jazz clubs, organized athletics, fraternal organizations and the golden age of the movie cinema. As the pandemic subsides, we’ll probably see more temperature-controlled outdoor event and dining spaces, more pedestrian and bicycling options, more city parks and more hybrid events that give you the option to attend virtually.
Retrain your brain. Psychologists say the techniques of cognitive behavioral therapy can help people at any age regain the certainty and confidence they need to venture into the public space post-pandemic. “Visualizing good outcomes and repeating a stated goal can help overcome whatever obstacles are holding you back,” says Gabriele Oettingen, a professor of psychology at New York University, who suggests making an “if-then plan” to reacclimate to public life. If eating indoors at a restaurant is too agitating, even if you’ve been vaccinated, then try a table outside first. If a bucket-list family vacation to Italy feels too daunting, then book a stateside trip together first. “There’s always an alternative if something stands in the way of you fulfilling your wish,” she says. “Eventually, you’ll get there.”